mental health

It’s okay to walk away

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We are all entitled to our own opinions and beliefs. I don’t judge, I don’t become angry, I’m not resentful, and I don’t hold anything against anyone because of someone’s own beliefs.

What I will do is walk away. I will walk away from subliminal comments and subtle digs that are thrown at me if I don’t agree with others.

It’s okay to cut ties for your own good.

It’s not for anyone else to make sense of why you do what you do. It only has to make sense to you. Have confidence when stepping away from relationships that make you feel inferior, dismissed, or small, Your peace is worth more than proximity.

Let Me Do My Job

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I’m taking a huge risk and it’s sad. I am taking a risk for saying how I really feel.

Today’s society is nothing like the one in which I grew up in. I had morals. I had respect. I lived by rules. Because of this, I am and became the person who I am today.

Things are different today. We, the older generation have to be afraid of what we say and do. The older generation is a lost and forgotten generation. I am talking about the ones who were born in the 60’s and 70’s and younger. Some of us are afraid, like me, who is in fear of losing my job. The job that’s keeping me afloat in this messed up world that we live in today. But should I really be living in fear? What am I at risk of losing? What am I going to gain if I say and do what I feel is in my heart?

The loss of my voice is debilitating. I cannot do the job that my heart yearns for me to do. My job is to make others better. To make others worthy and stronger and self-sufficient. All that is being stripped away from me.

I am a teacher. Let me teach. Let me do the best job I can and have faith in me that I will give others a chance to be successful in life. But how am I supposed to do that if you take away everything I believe in that I need to pass on to generations to come?

It’s a sad society that we live in today. It’s sad that we have to be afraid to discipline, give guidance, and instill morals to those who need it the most.

There’s No Need

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There’s no need in trying to figure out someone else’s behavior. People are going to do what they do regardless. Some do strange and odd things for a reason. It could stem from trauma, a mental disorder, or a combination of things going on in their life that they can’t handle.

What part of that scenario is your responsibility? None. It’s not your job to try and figure them out or try and help someone change their behavior, because it’s just that, it’s their behavior, not yours.

Remember that your sanity is priority so set empathetic boundaries. Learn to disconnect and stop trying to fix someone who doesn’t want to fix themselves.

Listen to Me

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Stop worrying, stop feeling bad about hurting other peoples feelings when you are hurting inside because of them. If they have no regard for you that’s not a reflection of what you’re doing, that’s all on them. You need to move on. No matter how much you apologize and no matter what you say it will not change their behavior. Why should you suffer because of it? Stop.

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