It’s okay to walk away


We are all entitled to our own opinions and beliefs. I don’t judge, I don’t become angry, I’m not resentful, and I don’t hold anything against anyone because of someone’s own beliefs.

What I will do is walk away. I will walk away from subliminal comments and subtle digs that are thrown at me if I don’t agree with others.

It’s okay to cut ties for your own good.

It’s not for anyone else to make sense of why you do what you do. It only has to make sense to you. Have confidence when stepping away from relationships that make you feel inferior, dismissed, or small, Your peace is worth more than proximity.

An Important Day


I usually shy away from posts that center on me. When I do write, I try to use myself as an example to get my point across but this post will be different. I’m 55 years old!!! Wow. It’s taking a while to fully register in my brain.

I recently joined Hinge, the dating app. I’ve tried others in the past. I’d go on and off, giving it about 5–10 days, then cancel my subscription. I’m starting to think that what I want just isn’t out there. It feels like trying to find a needle in a haystack. Or could it be that I’m subliminally changing up my checklist to avoid this whole having-a-partner kind of thing?

Is it because I’ve been single for so long? Is four years a long time? I’m starting to think it is… I guess lol.

There’s no shame in solitude, at least not for me. I endured too much for too long to waste any more precious time settling.

My saying is: “Just because you can, doesn’t mean you should.”