Manifest your destiny


How can I put this… I am normal as they come so listen to this. When you hear about manifesting your destiny I know that there are people out there who think its a bunch of malarkey right?

People say if you think positive and put out in the universe what you want you will get it. I’ve read the book The Secret quite a long time ago and I try to pick it up now and then just to skim through some of the chapters to refresh my memory and give it a positive boost. And let me tell you, being a pretty normal gal from Long Island with two boys ages 11 and 12, who loves to ride Harley’s with her boyfriend, the improbably is possible. Trust me on this.

I was raised as a Catholic pasta eating person. I like to socialize and have a few on the weekends. I am not perfect nor do I ever pretend to be. I watch Criminal Minds, Bates Motel, The Walking Dead, binge eat at night sometimes, curse like a sailor when need be. I’m telling you this just to give you a clue of what I’m like so when I tell you this about manifesting your destiny, you can actually see the type of person I am and am not. If you catch my drift?

I believe that if you think about something enough or put positive thoughts in your mind, they will come true.

I’ve seen it a few times now in my life and I sit and think about how certain events have developed over a period of time. As of just recently like in the past 2 months, I went for a job interview for a job that was my dream job. It was for a Community Educator position with the YWCA. It is ideal for me because it is a job that I really can’t call it a job because it’s truly something I love doing. So low and behold I was called in for not one but two interviews.

I finally got the call from the HR woman to tell me that I DIDN’T get the job. Hmmm…. I wasn’t worried or upset. I knew that the position was still mine even though they hired someone else.

It was really weird because my sister and I talked about it and even she said, “Jeana, I feel like that position is yours and some how or some way you are going to get it in the long run.”

What do you think happened??  Two months later, they let the first candidate go and asked me if I was still interested in the position!

I’m not going to say, “oh how can this be?” You know why? Because I already now how it could be, I wished it to be mine and I put it out in the universe that the position was meant for me. Looked what happen. I’m going in this coming Monday to discuss the particulars. But who knows I might have not gotten this position in the end and if not, it wasn’t meant to be. Remember, what’s destined to be will be.

People are probably saying, well how come you don’t wish yourself to win the lotto right? Well its kind of hard to explain but if you know in your heart what your intentions are realistically suppose to be, then that is how your destiny is truly meant to end up like. In the long run it is kinda like you won the lotto when you end up in a happy place.

That’s how I look at it anyway lol.

Good luck. Think positive. Manifest your thoughts and destiny. It will happen just stay focused and don’t lose hope. I promise it does work.

Beautiful morning in upstate New York


Good morning everyone. Today’s thought is never feel defeated. Only you can control your outcome. With positive thoughts and determination anything can be done.

Don’t give up. Stay focused.

Am I telling you this or am I telling myself this? It’s a bit of both. I sometimes have to reassure myself of my affirmations. Today I need a lot of reassurance and faith.

Have a great day everyone 🙂 11701142_10207220905746967_724351534348385147_n

Two Steps Back


In our mind we think that when things go wrong, we have no luck or we are just doomed. This isn’t the case. In order for things to come together they must fall apart. And, in the current situtaion or circumstance that you are going through, that just might very well be a good thing.

If you are in a relationship that you think is irreconciable but you still love that person the best thing to do to make it better is to sometimes walk away for a while.

There are so many unknowns in life. Everyday, every second, every moment of your life is an unknown. My philosophy is to just roll with it. Don’t stress. Don’t fret. Don’t worry. It is a waste of precious time. There is only so much you can do to change the inevitiable. That is why the word inevitable is so important. You truly do not have control over what is destin to come. So….just let it happen. Learn from your mistakes that created that inevitable and critique for the future.

I’ve change the tempo of my blog so many times but I guess I’ve come to the conclusion that it’s just a compilation of my life. The good, the bad, and the inevitable lol.

My header pic is of my new apartment. It’s a shot of my sun/bedroom and my cat Moo Moo. I love my simple life and over the course of oh I’d say the past ten years is when I really started to think about what it’s all about.

Stop. Think about what’s important and enjoy it.

Until next post…. have a great day and be kind. blessings