Manifest your destiny


How can I put this… I am normal as they come so listen to this. When you hear about manifesting your destiny I know that there are people out there who think its a bunch of malarkey right?

People say if you think positive and put out in the universe what you want you will get it. I’ve read the book The Secret quite a long time ago and I try to pick it up now and then just to skim through some of the chapters to refresh my memory and give it a positive boost. And let me tell you, being a pretty normal gal from Long Island with two boys ages 11 and 12, who loves to ride Harley’s with her boyfriend, the improbably is possible. Trust me on this.

I was raised as a Catholic pasta eating person. I like to socialize and have a few on the weekends. I am not perfect nor do I ever pretend to be. I watch Criminal Minds, Bates Motel, The Walking Dead, binge eat at night sometimes, curse like a sailor when need be. I’m telling you this just to give you a clue of what I’m like so when I tell you this about manifesting your destiny, you can actually see the type of person I am and am not. If you catch my drift?

I believe that if you think about something enough or put positive thoughts in your mind, they will come true.

I’ve seen it a few times now in my life and I sit and think about how certain events have developed over a period of time. As of just recently like in the past 2 months, I went for a job interview for a job that was my dream job. It was for a Community Educator position with the YWCA. It is ideal for me because it is a job that I really can’t call it a job because it’s truly something I love doing. So low and behold I was called in for not one but two interviews.

I finally got the call from the HR woman to tell me that I DIDN’T get the job. Hmmm…. I wasn’t worried or upset. I knew that the position was still mine even though they hired someone else.

It was really weird because my sister and I talked about it and even she said, “Jeana, I feel like that position is yours and some how or some way you are going to get it in the long run.”

What do you think happened??  Two months later, they let the first candidate go and asked me if I was still interested in the position!

I’m not going to say, “oh how can this be?” You know why? Because I already now how it could be, I wished it to be mine and I put it out in the universe that the position was meant for me. Looked what happen. I’m going in this coming Monday to discuss the particulars. But who knows I might have not gotten this position in the end and if not, it wasn’t meant to be. Remember, what’s destined to be will be.

People are probably saying, well how come you don’t wish yourself to win the lotto right? Well its kind of hard to explain but if you know in your heart what your intentions are realistically suppose to be, then that is how your destiny is truly meant to end up like. In the long run it is kinda like you won the lotto when you end up in a happy place.

That’s how I look at it anyway lol.

Good luck. Think positive. Manifest your thoughts and destiny. It will happen just stay focused and don’t lose hope. I promise it does work.

Happy New Year Everyone


Happy New Year to all of my friends and family, I wish you all a better year than last.  I can’t say that this year is a new beginning because I try and look at every day that I wake up as a new beginning and a new day to get things right. Enjoy life and not just the big accomplishments but the little ones that really count.  The things that matter the most are hearing and saying I love you a million times a day, random hugs and kisses for no reason, phone calls/or texts just to check in and say hi. Get together even if it is just for a “quick cup.” Ask someone how their day is going. Give second chances. Listen to someone vent just to make them feel better. Be compassionate and understand that not everyone lives by the same book that you do so don’t judge. Reach out to someone who you haven’t spoken to in a while. Go out of your way to make someone happy. Don’t gossip, it hurts and is VERY destructive. Watch your words and think about what you say before you say it and please teach your kids the same.  Don’t make fun of those who are less fortunate than you, you never know; you just might end up in the same situation. Take care of yourself, as in mind and body (you only get one so treat it right).  I really want to go on and on but I think you get the gist of this post so I’ll cut it short FOR NOW lol.

Bottom line and I think I’m repeating myself, BE KIND. It is amazing how doing something nice for someone else or just treating others with the same respect that you would want, can truly make you feel good.

Be safe and have a great 2016.Happy-New-Year-2016-Download-Images-22

Beautiful morning in upstate New York


Good morning everyone. Today’s thought is never feel defeated. Only you can control your outcome. With positive thoughts and determination anything can be done.

Don’t give up. Stay focused.

Am I telling you this or am I telling myself this? It’s a bit of both. I sometimes have to reassure myself of my affirmations. Today I need a lot of reassurance and faith.

Have a great day everyone 🙂 11701142_10207220905746967_724351534348385147_n